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Our Safety Tools & Controls

SecretMsg is meant to be a place that is fun and safe for all, where you can be your authentic self and deepen connections with real-world friends. We have engineered a multi-layered safety suite that puts total control over your inbox directly into your hands.

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Hidden Words & Emojis

Create a custom blocklist of words, phrases, and emojis that will automatically be filtered out from all future messages. You decide precisely what is allowed into your inbox, down to the word and even down to the emoji.

Settings → Safety Controls → Filter Keywords

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Blocked Senders Management

View an overview of everyone you have blocked from your link. Blocked senders are permanently forbidden from submitting new messages to your board, and you retain full freedom to unblock them at any time.

Settings → Safety Controls → Blocked Users

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Pause My Link (Digital Detox)

If you ever feel overwhelmed by a high volume of messages, you can pause your SecretMsg link instantly. Select preset timers of 1 hour, 6 hours, 24 hours, or pause indefinitely until you are ready to resume.

Settings → Link Status → Pause Receipt

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Enhanced Moderation Mode

Toggle on Enhanced Moderation to apply heightened sensitivity filters. Borderline negative questions, sarcastic teasing, or sensitive themes are automatically intercepted before reaching your inbox.

Settings → Safety Controls → Strict Filter

01 What, Who & When: Complete Recipient Sovereignty

Taken together, these safety controls allow you to manage:

What you see: Custom keyword filters and Enhanced Moderation strip out unwanted themes and language automatically.
Who can send: 1-tap blocking and session throttling lock out unwanted senders permanently.
When you receive: Pause your link on a schedule or on-demand for total digital peace of mind.

02 Instant Action & Data Erasure Controls

cleaning_services 1-Tap Inbox Clean Slate

Start fresh anytime. With a single confirmation in Settings, permanently purge all stored messages from your inbox with zero residual logs.

delete_forever Permanent Account Wipeout

Complete self-service deletion. Deleting your account deletes your username handle, stored questions, replies, and settings forever.

03 24/7 Community Support Team

Technology works hand-in-hand with real people. Our dedicated trust and community team works day and night to investigate user reports and assist with account security.

Trust & Safety Community Support safety@secretmsg.net • support@secretmsg.net

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Safety Hub Community Guidelines Approach to Safety Crisis Resources